Most of our swingers parties at Infusions do allow a limited number of carefully screened single males to attend. Some swinging couples that come to our parties are looking for an extra male to join their fun, and of course we also have singles ladies at our parties. Both groups are particular about the men they choose. In this article we share some tips that will increase your chance of a more enjoyable night out as a single male.
The first tip is pretty simple – present yourself well. Women attending our parties take the effort to dress up and look sexy. Men should match this effort by dressing well and being well groomed. Most of our parties require that men wear a collared dress shirt as a minimum – but to really impress wear some nice pants and dress shoes. Make sure that your personal hygiene is top notch and you smell good.
Our second tip is to be social and engage other ladies or couples in conversation. Our venue is setup to give people a great social experience and provides people with places to gather on stools at the bar, couches, or around the pool table. Couples and ladies want to interact with and get to know you before they will be interested in going to the play rooms for some fun. It is unlikely that you will be invited to play if you haven’t made an effort to first have some conversation. A simple conversation starter is to ask about their previous experiences with swinging, what they enjoy, and what they are looking for at our parties.
Single men often enjoy a great night at our parties, however it’s best to come with no expectations. Swingers parties don’t guarantee sex and it’s very much up to the couples and single ladies who they choose to play with. Every party is different depending on the crowd and so every night may not lead to an opportunity to play. If you expect or are desperate to play then you give off that vibe to your fellow party attendees and you will likely be less successful in finding play partners. Be easy going and enjoy the social aspect of the parties and you will be more likely to be attractive to others.
Finally, when others are playing make sure to be considerate and watch from a distance. When playing even if in our open group areas couples need their personal space. If you are not involved in play then stand back 5-10 feet and enjoy the show. Don’t try to get involved in play if you are not invited either as couples will invite those they want to join them. Uninvited touching or being pushy is not acceptable in our club and will be reason to bar you from future parties if we see this behaviour. If single males crowd playing or make uninvited advances this often will stop play altogether and then you can no longer enjoy watching and spoil the party for others.
Follow these tips and you will enjoy a fun night at our swingers parties. Send us a note on the contact page to get more info and invite to one of our upcoming events.